Thursday, July 12, 2012

Act as if with NLP


In NLP,''to put a picture frame''means the way we put things in different contexts, and to give them a different meaning.

The neurolinguistic programming, is pragmatic, seeks tangible results, because it suggests that NLP is that you can participate and try things ... and the better you get useful results for your life, to have more options when making decisions and carrying Things to action.

There are several ways to''frame''... put a frame made to certain situations and to solve successfully.

Look ... it's like saying:''Well, this is so and do not find it, can not find the back ... and I want to give the best meaning for me ... so I put a frame of reference (this' 'table''or situation), let me see it ... in a more helpful to me ... so we can solve.''

There are different ways to frame a situation in NLP ... ie there are different types of frames modelos''o''.

If you try to apply this to the objectives must be clear about a goal and make sure it is well defined. Does it depend on you? Is it something you want to achieve forward and positively? must be something you want to ... not because I want to achieve something,''the other''to avoid ...

Do you have the right size? ... Sometimes a target is very large we can break it down into several smaller ... you are in full compliance in achieving that goal, or do you generate conflicts?

Then, you analyze situations from these lenses get ... look at certain things from this glass ... see situations ... putting this framework in this case, your goals, maintaining fixed in mind, your goals and if you're moving in the direction to them ... and go looking if you're moving or not and that is what is hindering progress.

If you apply this resource of NLP, putting now,''an''ecological framework to your target (or situation you want to get to solve), you should ask, for example-are you going according to my way of being, my integrity as man I chose the target? my goal respects my health and that of others? Etc ...

There is also a NLP framework called''evidence''... once you do that you want ... how you realize thereof? Looking at things with this framework, you know ... you've actually achieved the goal.

And finally let's look a little NLP framework''As If''...

Remember that NLP was born from observing people of excellence and decodificar''sus''behaviors, mental strategies, beliefs, physiology ... to then be applied to any type of people ... and get the same successful results.

Here I show a very small part of it, since in this case, the NLP framework''as if''... is a comprehensive and creative well you can solve problems ... after watching everything from the box or frame ... Presumably,''as if''it were true ... when you're trying to solve or achieve something special.

You say to yourself:''if this happens ...''''or''let's say ...

Or choose a model, as I said before ... someone get the results you want and ask ... If Mr. X were here ... what would you do?

This is very useful for states to create our life ... imagining excellence. It's a way to use imagination to succeed.

The famous hypnotherapist Milton Ericsson said about it: "You can pretend to master something ... and actually ... then master it."

This is an important skill that is applied in the modeling or modeling, to achieve excellence and success.

Because when someone successfully modeled, for example ... we have to incorporate some of their beliefs ... they are supported to act that way and achieve good results? ...

Once we detect what those beliefs .. we must act''as if''those beliefs ... they were our own! ... So the closer we get the same results of success.

Moreover, we move and have their physiology when acting in the activity in which he gained his great results ... it is like''move''to move that person ...

An excellent first step in modeling, is placed in second position in NLP perceptual ... this means be''in''the other's shoes ... in the position of the other person.

Imagine what it must be that person ... and extracting elucidating the strategies of excellence you want to model.

''This way your model percibir''el world ... contributes to the intuitive understanding of their thoughts and actions.

Of course, practice these powerful resources of NLP, often to master. After all, driving a car can not be done without acquiring enough practice driving hours or''''!

With these tools that NLP puts in your hands, you have a view of things with which you can get valuable information, more choice and see and decide to follow different paths ... lets look at things''out of the ''box ... watching a situation ... according to the frameworks you use.

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